Feeling Ashamed for Being Too Sensitive

Does anyone else feel ashamed for being too sensitive? I feel really alone, like I'm the most sensitive and needy person in the world. I have anxiety, I'm pretty sure autism, and depression. I get stressed easily. I get burnt out easily. I panic very easily. I get my feelings hurt and get discouraged easily. I cry and spiral at small inconveniences, they all seem so big to me. When I'm stressed especially, and in general, I need a lot of emotional and mental support. I need a lot of extra help. If I'm not able to get this extra emotional and mental support, I can't function properly. I get burnt out, I get depressed, I have ongoing anxiety attacks. I feel ridiculous and dramatic and weak and annoying, all the time. I live in a constant 24/7 state of intense guilt and shame and self hatred. I'm so disappointed in myself, and I'm very convinced that other are disappointed in me too even if they say they aren't. Here I am, asking for reassurance again. Is it ok to be this way? I'm so ashamed, should I be ashamed? What if I can't fix this and it's just how I am? My personality? Is that even acceptable, is that ok? Am I too much? Should I work on accepting this part of myself or should I try to make it go away? Please be honest. I need to know.