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MirandasUniverse

2y ago

Feeling Alone and Uninteresting

there's a reason i don't talk to people. i feel like every time i do i say something wrong or im not interesting or funny enough. my whole existence feels kinda mid. i wish i knew how to make people like me... it sucks feeling so alone

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SemiCharmed

2y ago

Hi, as someone who has struggled with depression for decades, I just want to gently remind you that depression tends to distort your perception of yourself, and your interpretation of how others perceive you. For example, if there's more than one way to take something that someone says, your depression can make you believe the most negative one. I'm sure part of this is the depression talking. I instantly found you likeable and interesting. I'm sure I'm not the only one. πŸŒˆπŸ’
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MirandasUniverse

2y ago

thank you this made me feel good. I've recently asked the people in my life and they've all said I am fun to be around. So I'm trying to believe them
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AlyWare

2y ago

My doc recently shared that the number 1 way to like you is by doing something nice for them or allowing them to do something nice to help you. There has been much research in this area. Don’t know but it made sense and helped me. Thought I would pass on the good vibes. β€οΈβ˜€οΈπŸŒˆ
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4byfour

2y ago

thank you!
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MiloSunshine

2y ago

I used to feel this way, too. But I eventually learned that life is short, and I want to spend it being ME. If people don't like me for me, then I don't like them either. Lol. I'm all sorts of socially awkward, and I honestly love it. It's just part of who I am. If you worry about being boring, maybe find hobbies/interests if you don't have any ATM. Talk about what makes you passionate!
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nuttybooker

2y ago

I think you would be surprised at how many people feel like you,boring. I know I do. But alot of the time it's the mundane things that connect us
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Elliss

2y ago

I understand how you feel. But I promise you people are more worried about how they look then judging you. I learned this after I started feeling more confident about myself. It's not about getting people to like you, people will like you, at least the right people. Hope I helped πŸ₯°
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MirandasUniverse

2y ago

I guess lol but I still want to feel like I'm interesting. I'm boring and I don't like me so it's no wonder no one else does

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