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RyleighRain

2y ago

Facing eviction and feeling helpless

Hello, this post is pretty random but I feel that it is severely affecting my anxiety/OCD/depression.... etc. I am 45 years old and I used to be a nurse. Before I had to stop working and go on disability. to make a very long story short, I own my own home. I bought a mobile home 8 years ago and it happened to be in a mobile home park. the owner of the park has been trying to evict me for some time, all because she has a bad impression of my 27 year old son. this impression was all hearsay to start. this makes like 6 or 7 attempts to evict me and this time the court ruled in favor for her. which mean I have until July 6th to find land, but it, and move my home. the problem is, I've not left home in 2 years. that's what happened was 7nstead of going to court (I've not left my home in 2 years), I tried going through the clerk and tell the embarrassing truth about my anxiety and panic. it didn't work. I had late fees that the landlord herself said, my late fees were collecting late fees and that's the Means of eviction. BUT, I PAID EVERY Cent OWED TO HER THE WEEK PRIOR TO COURT. I was still ordered to move. I'm on disability. how do they think I can buy land, move my trailer plus already giving her half of my check because I thought it would keep me out of court. this lady has violated many landlord conditions, one of which is a huge hazard to my already compromised immune system due to sjogrens. I am to appeal and the hazardous condition that she has told me over and over it's not her problem and the town says it is hers to fix, she's done nothing but I'm going to call the health department tomorrow, and that's only one thing she's not done or has done that I know can't be legal. I have a phone consult Friday with legal aide. I'm just freaking out because I have no one to talk to. my entire family has passed away and my son and I are all we have, with my home! Im scared and just needed to vent. if NOONE has any advice, could I please just get some prayers for my home and what's inside. my son and my home. that's all I have and I feel very anxious and nauseous, hopeless, helpless, insert.....words, I feel it! I just don't know how to move fwd from here. thanks guys just for reading my post. steph

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Kimmiepooh

2y ago

You are always welcome to talk to me any time you want.
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Leeroxa

2y ago

Dont give up and keep moving forward. When you need strength, God can give it to you. 💕
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Sunshine_Sue

2y ago

I also am with the rest who posted a reply. You can fight!! You’ll find the strength to do this. Your landlord sounds horrible. I am so sorry to hear that this is happening to you! I’m here for you if you need more support. 🤗 and prayers for you and your son!!
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niceshyguy

2y ago

I'm truly so sorry what you been going through and, that's a tough situation. I'm with the others here, it took real strength to even post your real life situation here, and we stand behind you steph..... Please do not give up or give in, I know you have that fighting spirit deep inside and sometimes it takes us, facing intense stress like you are, to bring it forward and I know you have it in you. I'm also here to help in any way I'm able too, only if it's just to listen and give you moral support, but please know you got this, you truly do
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RyleighRain

2y ago

Thank you so much!
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RyleighRain

2y ago

Sure, I'd love to chat more! Thanks for reading and taking time out to message me back. And yes, this is a very scary situation. I actually left home on Friday in order to go to the court and file an appeal! So as of now, the eviction has stopped. I will speak to my attorney on Monday. I've moved it up to circuit Court. My son and my home is all I have. What's in this home that God allowed me to comfortably buy before I had to stop nursing, and I will fight u til there is no fight left for my home and my son. See, I'm not sure that I told this important bit but I only rent a piece of land from this lady. My home is mine. But it happened to be on this spot when I bought it. Moving this trailer would of course mean finding, buying, and prepping land to move a mobile home on to. It's so unrealistic to think someone can do that in 30 days when I paid her 600.00 and I had to pay 130.00 for the appeal. They must not know what disability means! Thanks you for reading and replying. sure we can keep in touch. Where do you live, if you don't mind me asking? What state? I'm in VA.
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RyleighRain

2y ago

thank you so much! Just acknowledging that you took the time to read and apply tells me your a wonderful and considerate person. It doesn't matter if you were still in high school, just taking time to do just what you done after reading my post can bring positive feelings, in turn brings confidence to fight another day! Thank you sweet, so very much!! 💕
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Kimmiepooh

2y ago

Well first of all, hello. My name is Kimberly. And I'm almost the same age as you. I will be 45 next week. And as far as what you are going through I am so sorry. I really do feel bad about your situation. I have dealt with eviction and crappy landlords before too. When you said you haven't left your house in two years, I felt that. Because I am the exact same way. Unfortunately some landlords abuse their power. Greatly! And they know that courts can mostly side with them. If you have done nothing wrong they can't make you leave. I know our mental health cripples us but this is a moment when you need to stand up for yourself. Please find the strength in you to fight this. Don't let that landlord get away with it! Protect yourself and your son. The courts can't favor the landlord if you've done nothing in violation. If you don't mind I would like for you to keep in touch with me. Message me directly if you want to. I am so sad right now over your situation. Because me and my husband have been through it too. And I know how it feels to be done wrong. Message me anytime dear. I'd like to talk to you further.
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Kishi

2y ago

hello, i'm barely out of high school and have no experience dealing with legal issues like that so i'm sorry but i don't have any advice for you. i just want you to know i read the whole post and i'm so sorry you're dealing with that, that sounds so overwhelming. you are a strong person, i admire you for not giving up and fighting for a way through this. i really hope things work out well for you, i am sending positive thoughts your way

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