Struggling with DID and Dating: Should I Pursue a Relationship with a Singlet or a Plural?

so, i recently met someone in may, and i really like them. they haven’t met my other alters and my alters have started to be active again with a lot of stuff going on in my life. it seemed like things were going alright, but this person expressed they had no intention of learning what they couldn’t understand already regarding mental health and such. and so it just depresses me. i was prepared to educate and help them understand what i struggle with as a apparently normal part or host, but they just like. shut it down? idk it just felt so bad to me i guess. :( i’ve been trying to get treated for my other disorders because the area we are in doesn’t offer help for DID really. it just generally sucks. anyways. would it be easier to seek out a relationship with a singlet or a plural? what do you guys think? :( i’m really scared that if i pursue a relationship with this person they will eventually leave before the relationship even starts. i’d rather just stay friends with them if that’s the case.