yeah... that's very true. but you need to validate what you feel. you need to try to get better for yourself and be healthy so you can get a healthy partner. because a lot of times you can also see little pieces of yourself and your partner. the beautiful imperfect pieces. and that's a beautiful thing.

Sounds like youve had the same realization i did....usually what bothers us the most about another person (especially in romantic relationships for me) is what we subconsciously dislike about ourselves. Its extremely ironic and funny to me and its important to laugh at myself. It helps me remember we are all humans just trying to figure it out