Difficulty expressing ourselves as a DID system

dudes we 100% have this happen and it's actually such a struggle, especially because we're autistic and have always had severe social anxiety + ocd, we also tend to forget the "social rules" of social media, and then get incredibly anxious about commiting some faux pau or something that otherwise wouldn't "sound like ourselves", which is just arbitrary because of how often we tend to switch. some of us will see something later and often be like "ahhh that was too cringe never doing that again" and it's just this Deep sense of shame over something that we likely didn't even do anything wrong, but it feels out of character for us and like we shouldn't have done it. we struggle to use social media at all because of this and often avoid it and avoid using it and even talking about or persuing our interests. even on our account only systems follow, we struggle to remember to use it and often feel as if we'll do or say something "wrong". theres a lot more that goes into it for us but i sweaaaar i get this problem

I feel you!! Recently, I've been trying to get some of my headmates to appear more overt, because it's their body too. I want them to know that they don't have to hide themselves all the time. We aren't openly a system online, so most people assume we are a singlet. With people assuming we're all one person, if one alter posts something they find funny and then another alter finds it cringey, they wouldn't want people to associate that with them, so they just delete it. It really hurts when you're the one who's posts gets deleted 💀

it was that way when we were younger and organizing the matrix so to speak, and some days it's still very archaic and we'll literally flow from front to back without even realizing what happened until later. saying something and then realizing someone else said it is the certified worst.