Debilitating Joint Pain and Fatigue: Seeking Advice

Hello all. I've been struggling with debilitating joint pain and fatigue off/on for the last yr, worse in the last 6mo. Some days it feels like mono, the flu, and a 2-story fall all at once. The pain in my feet, ankles, hands, wrists, elbows and shoulders gets brutal. A pain clinic RN immediately said it was fibromyalgia, without much of an exam or discussion of further testing. I have a horrible reaction to Neurontin and Lyrica, so aside from ibuprofen all day, I have no options. Every time I saw her, it was the same...no pill will help, exercise, meditate, eat healthy, etc. I did all of that, except walking. I developed neuropathy in hands and feet, hurt to have socks on. I went into MyChart and looked over some results from 2019 that suggested early stage RA. When I brought it up to her, she dismissed it. My OCD and Dr. Google have my head spinning! Anyone have words of wisdom? Insights? Similar experiences? Suggestions? Thanks for "listening".