depends on where i am. if im home i’ll sit in the shower and take it slow while listening to music and taking deep breaths. usually my anxiety will subside but if it doesn’t or its still lingering a bit, ill put on my comfiest clothes, get some ice water, and crawl into bed and watch a comfort show (mines usually spongebob). smoking weed also helps me, but i know thats not everyone’s cup of tea and some have the opposite effect. i respect it, and i will never push it!
if im out, ill usually excuse myself and find a bathroom or somewhere quiet-ish. ill sit down and just let my thoughts escape me for a minute and let it out. i’ve always been one to cry at literally everything, but was also taught growing up that crying is bad (IT ABSOLUTELY IS NOT!!). sometimes you just have to tell yourself “its ok to cry, everyone cries. it doesn’t make you weak or less than.” after im done letting it out, at least enough to be ok til i get home or something, ill clean myself up and take some deep breaths. if i can get water ill drink a bunch of water, bonus points if its cold water. if i go back and someone asks if im alright/have i been crying, i usually just say yes. no reason to hide the way you feel, it’s normal. if its a setting you feel comfortable talking about it in and you’re up for it, absolutely do it. in my experience, if people are asking, they are willing to listen. a lot if people are far more understanding in 2022 than we’re lead to believe. if you don’t want to talk about it, i would say “i’m ok, i don’t really want to talk about it right now”. generally people don’t push after that.
just know that having anxiety and/or being overwhelmed is normal. everyone experiences it, maybe not in the same circumstances but they do experience it. you’re not a burden for it, and it wont kill the vibe for everyone else. ❤️