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keegan

Updated 10mo ago

Dealing with Impatience in Marriage Planning

what do you do when you strongly want something but are too impatient to wait. my bf and I are planning on getting married soon and I can't wait to be married and already and start a family. I see people pregnant or announcing a pregnancy and it's all I want so bad but it's not my time yet how can I keep my self from breaking down about it ? anyone else relate ?

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suppah

Just wait its difficult but wait I'm also a guy so you can ignore my response

keegan

no I appreciate the response it's just hard for me I guess it's alot of work but I want to be a mom so bad and it's just hard seeing everyone I know and people I see living what I dream for

IndigoBro

Use your excitement to plan something concrete for your future pregnancy! Maybe parenting books or like a parenting class or something idk how it works

keegan

thank you. I'll try to do something of that nature. I know my mom had some parenting books when she was pregnant with my brother and me So I'll try to see if she still has those so I can use them for my future child

Elladolores

Think about the formula shorthand how expensive babies are not to mention how bad the world is getting. I personally would want to bring a kid into this messy world. (I’m not trying to be offensive I’m just speaking facts) focus in the honeymoon instead.

Chesbro99

I can relate. Just keep in mind what your partner wants too. Do hobbies to keep you busy. That's what I do.

keegan

my boyfriend is really understanding and wants the same thing he just knows how important it is to me and he is excited about the start of our family soon but we will be getting married soon(ish) and are worrying about that first

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