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Dealing with Impatience in Marriage Planning

keegan

556d

what do you do when you strongly want something but are too impatient to wait. my bf and I are planning on getting married soon and I can't wait to be married and already and start a family. I see people pregnant or announcing a pregnancy and it's all I want so bad but it's not my time yet how can I keep my self from breaking down about it ? anyone else relate ?

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    • keegan

      553d

      @Chesbro99 my boyfriend is really understanding and wants the same thing he just knows how important it is to me and he is excited about the start of our family soon but we will be getting married soon(ish) and are worrying about that first

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    • Chesbro99

      554d

      I can relate. Just keep in mind what your partner wants too. Do hobbies to keep you busy. That's what I do.

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      • keegan

        553d

        @Chesbro99 my boyfriend is really understanding and wants the same thing he just knows how important it is to me and he is excited about the start of our family soon but we will be getting married soon(ish) and are worrying about that first

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    • Elladolores

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      Think about the formula shorthand how expensive babies are not to mention how bad the world is getting. I personally would want to bring a kid into this messy world. (I’m not trying to be offensive I’m just speaking facts) focus in the honeymoon instead.

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    • IndigoBro

      555d

      Use your excitement to plan something concrete for your future pregnancy! Maybe parenting books or like a parenting class or something idk how it works

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      • keegan

        555d

        @IndigoBro thank you. I'll try to do something of that nature. I know my mom had some parenting books when she was pregnant with my brother and me So I'll try to see if she still has those so I can use them for my future child

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    • suppah

      556d

      Just wait its difficult but wait I'm also a guy so you can ignore my response

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      • keegan

        556d

        @suppah no I appreciate the response it's just hard for me I guess it's alot of work but I want to be a mom so bad and it's just hard seeing everyone I know and people I see living what I dream for

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        • suppah

          556d

          @keegan i get it. But everyone lives there dream at different times just focus on living him and yourself the best you can. Everything else will unfold be patient

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