Dealing with Cat Allergies: Is it Wrong to Ask?

@Redvelninja oh nah I think that's perfectly reasonable to say that you can't live with 7 cats, or to say that you aren't a fan of cats. if you got weird vibes from him it may have been if he wasn't thinking of a roommate situation, he would have been confused about that angle on the convo. but nothing wrong on either side here!

@Redvelninja it just doesn't seem very necessary to talk about how you are not a cat person or to talk about your allergy unless you were actually planning on moving in with this guy which if that's the case I think you should reconsider because most people won't just get rid of their pets they're a part of the family and we love our pets lol

@Redvelninja I mean, is there an imminent plan of moving in with him? Or did you come out of no where telling him that he has too many cats and he would have to get rid of them if you moved in together? Because those are two entirely different situations. Either way, you're probably better not rooming with him anyway. People love their pets, they're part of the family. Forcing him to get rid of any of them will either not occur or will cause a lot of resentment. Also, it's not your allergies that make you not a cat person (most cat people have cat allergies in my experience, including myself), you just don't like cats. Which is totally your perogative. But it's not the allergy.