I feel you. I am on 30mg and can only reach climax maybe half the time whereas it used to be 100%. I don't know what to do about it either 😔

I was on that myself and on a couple others before it, and had the same problem.... It's frustrating when it helps one issue but creates another. Siiiiiiiiiiigh

I apologize too, I meant to also mention I ended up having to change my med, and for me fortunately wellbutrin helped me, and also didn't affect the other issue too.

I am on both currently. May do well to just cut back to the Wellbutrin. Thanks for sharing 💕

Does it affect your desire for sex? I'm not on Cymbalta but my antidepressant takes my libido away completely

I have been on the other side of this. my ex boyfriend used to struggle with that. i don’t think it was medication as much as it was that pressure that you mentioned. as his partner, at first i was a little bit insecure about it, but i realized that it was affecting him much more than me and i started to focus more on making sure he knew i wasn’t upset with him. although it must be frustrating, i made sure to see those intimate moments as just that- intimate moments. nobody says you HAVE to reach a climax, there are no rules. i know i can’t quite relate, but i just wanted to remind you that sex isn’t about the climax all of the time, but about that intimate and close connection between you and your partner. i hope things become easier soon! i know it must be pretty draining to have a hard time focusing. and then that in itself becomes a mental cycle of ‘i shouldn’t be distracted’ and then that exact thought distracting and pressuring you even more. good luck, you got this :)