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Tiyanna

Updated 11mo ago

Coping with Mental Health Issues

anyone else suffers from this? how do you cope with it?

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ElizabethJune

2y

Yeah. As embarrassed as I am to admit it I definitely suffer from this even despite being 30 already and getting ready to turn 31 in October. I would think my drive would've declined or decreased by now but not for me. It really interferes with my daily life and has caused me to do some risky things in the past too. So you're not alone and I was actually wandering the same thing because I'm yet to find a way to cope with it and it's driving me insane. I've tried everything. Sex toys don't work. Vibrators feel uncomfortable and it's like an Olympic act trying to get a dildo to stay in and gets boring doing all the work. There are pills that help with this but they have too many debilitating side effects and are hard to come by. Same for the injections. I'm not having any luck finding a stable sex partner either. All men just seem to wanna hit and quit it or ghost for weeks or months at a time. I'm really considering getting a hysterectomy to kill my sex drive but I don't think any doctors will give me one due to it not being a serious medical issue or emergency. I really wish I could help you but I'm honestly not sure how to cope with it myself.
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Tiyanna

2y

oh wow you'll be 31 in October too? Me too, on October 11. And its like ever since I've had my tubes cliped,removed,tied and burnt after my 4 month old I've been really sexual. And yes like sex toys vibrators,watching porn masterbating doesn't seem to satisfy me. I mean I have a husband but he's 3 1/2 years older than me and doesn't seem to be wanting sex as much as me. And its driving me crazy at times because before I got married(when I was single) I had NO problem with finding a sex partner,tbh some where hard for me to get rid of bc the guy would start catching feelings and I was in my 20s and had been done wrong by guys in the past so much till I didn't want to settle be tied down yet. Also in the past once in my marriage I've ended up sleeping around due to my high sex drive. I've also thought about pills or something to slow my drive down but I kinda really just want a good realese/orgasm like I was used to getting before I got married...I'm sorry for the tmi but I just don't want to feel as if I'm alone or the only one that feels this way
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GREENeggsANDdan

2y

Lots of masturbation
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Tiyanna

2y

I do that, but alot of the time I cant catch an orgasm like I'd like to from doing that 🤦🏽‍♀️ sorry tmi
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Jayghost

1y

And I been thinking I was the only person with a high sex drive now days I feel like I can’t find anything am wanking off like 5 or more just in the day I need something or someone to Mach my energy I think but I’ll still like to no what you think

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