Coping with Losses Due to Chronic Illness

I too have my “mourning phases” where I am just sad and want to cry and look at what I’ve lost or what I will continue to lose. Most people my age are getting married and starting families, I can barely go on more than one date with someone without having to cancel due to feeling crap. I honestly picture the rest of my life alone because building any kind of relationship while you are this chronically ill will take a miracle. So the best I’ve been able to do is find the positives in the situation this “loss” has put me. (even though any time someone says that to me I want to punch them in the face 😅) And maybe at best science will one day catch up with us and we can get back some of what we lost…