Confused about my sexuality, need advice

i can’t decide my sexuality. i am a female i am attracted to men’s general physical appearance, until they take their clothes off. i am attracted to women’s appearance, even with their clothes off. i get crushes on men and women. i typically get crushes on men way more than women. however with women it is usually a much deeper connection (i’ve fallen in love with women, but not men) i am not penetrated by internal stimulation, (vaginal), but i am penetrated by external stimulation. i get turned on with women most regularly, it’s rare for me to be turned on or sexually attracted to a male at all. usually i have to have some sort of emotional connection to them to even get turned on by them, but regardless i will not respond to internal stimulation. it is very confusing to me. i don’t want to lead men on by dating them/confessing feelings but then being uncomfortable having sex/ possibly deciding im a lesbian during our relationship. but i also get crushes on men, often, and more than when i do with women. it’s hard to ignore, i can’t just decide im lesbian and stick with the label because i do get feelings for men. anyone have an answer? possibly something other than “bisexual but sexual preference for women”? because it just doesn’t feel right.