How do I communicate that I don’t feel I am bipolar?

I went to medicine management appointment and the doctor put me on bipolar meds because Effexor made me feel aggressive…. And I told him my mom had me take bipolar meds because she and I would argue all the time and she said I’m bipolar. From what I understand, depression drugs can make bipolar people or those that aren’t depressed feel aggressive? But also I was going through a lot of stress and jealousy with my husband because I’ve been cheated on so much. How do I communicate that I don’t feel I am bipolar? I actually feel I am more anxious or adhd or autistic. I don’t really feel the not interested in things like depression, I just feel too unfocused and tired to do anything. (I have thyroid issues) I literally feel the same everyday unless something actively triggers me. I have never had mania, I’m just always feeling blah or it’s stressed and blah tired feeling.