Dealing with Relationship Issues and Borderline Personality

My note ex fiance has bpd. Horrible disease. Makes her Jekyll and Hyde. Been the most tumultuous and strenuous 3 years of my life. She's in therapy, don't dbt and cbt. On meds but still a total reading angry person. I stood by her as long as I could, but it's done. For my mental health and that of my daughter it had to end. Hoping she someday finds peace.

I can't say I relate with the borderline personality disorder, but I have had my challenges in relationships, even friendships for other reasons. People with Neurodiversity like us can sometimes feel emotions really strongly and can be blocked into extremes. It's really challenging for sure. People and relationships are challenging, but it can get better. There are a number of skills and tools one can learn to help one learn to navigate the challenges easier. I would be happy to share more if you are interested. Know you are not alone.

Not sure If I have bpd or of it's just my adhd, but I feel this so hard. People are very difficult to hang on to 😥

No BPD but I have C-PTSD which affects your personal relationships because of trauma not to mention the lack if modeling healthy relationships from caregivers

Yup for real

I haven't been fully diagnosed and I am curious is I have BPD... but relations for me are hard.. I honestly don't know how my own family puts up with me, there have been so many times where they could've just left me alone and fend for myself but they always come back to me when I regret my actions... I feel toxic most of the time but I can't help it when I get triggered by something

I struggle alot with this. I am easily triggered and I am eithwr ignoring myself to try and keep things calm which makes me triggered more or I let things blow up and that hurts the relationship.

Sometimes, it's hard to find the point where it's not crazy