I am going through the same thing. Though it's my dad that is very against labels.

I am also getting a diagnosis soon…. It’s scheduled for April. This has been very enlightening thank you. 💜 if you want a friend you can message me 😇

My husband and inlaws were my battle. I was diagnosed at 40. But my daughter suffered the most because of their ignorance. I fought from the time she was 3 to get her checked out, to no avail. I was labeled so many things from that family and when I was finally diagnosed, my brother in law used it against me. Now I am pulling out of that family and focusing on mine. That said, I cannot imagine my own mother being this person. I am happy for you and congratulate you on your journey! I hope you continue to find only more peace and comfort within your own skin💖