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Reapunzel

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Honestly I'm just trying this app for my hubby before I recommend. He has Chrohn's. We've been experiencing marriage problems a lot lately and I just want to find a way to love him that doesn't push him away. Any feedback on how the app works for you guys?

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    • Reapunzel

      540d

      @RubyRed888 I thought I knew all of those things but apparently I was wrong. I've also been pretty terrible to him while I've been struggling with my own issues and that's left it's own scars. I'm just glad he's shared that with me instead of just leaving so I can try to fix it but I just don't want him to feel alone with everything else going on in his life as he no longer feels safe confiding in me. Which I don't blame him for. I don't really deserve him but I can't stand the thought of my life without him.

    • RubyRed888

      543d

      I never married this guy, but got to know him so well that I knew exactly what would make him feel good, cause stress, or even make him hate me. And I used that to make our relationship better. I’m no longer dating him because of issues he was unable to resolve, but get to know your partner well. And yes like David said, communicate!

      • Reapunzel

        540d

        @RubyRed888 I thought I knew all of those things but apparently I was wrong. I've also been pretty terrible to him while I've been struggling with my own issues and that's left it's own scars. I'm just glad he's shared that with me instead of just leaving so I can try to fix it but I just don't want him to feel alone with everything else going on in his life as he no longer feels safe confiding in me. Which I don't blame him for. I don't really deserve him but I can't stand the thought of my life without him.

    • David1212

      543d

      Hi, I don't know what problems you have exactly and whether it is related to Crohn's disease he suffers from or other things, but I learned firsthand that the most important thing in a relationship between partners is, first of all, good communication. I can tell you that I have often fallen into relationships where there was no good communication. It is very important to talk about the things that are bothering you. If you feel that he just pushes you away every time you get close, maybe it's your place to ask him and tell him the things you feel. Maybe it's not at all the way you think and maybe if it is then there are things you can work on in order for the relationship to get better.

      • Reapunzel

        540d

        @David1212 you're absolutely right. Communication is incredibly important. Unfortunately he's started pushing me away as I've been... Pretty horrible to him these last couple years while I've struggled with my mental health issues so I'm mostly trying to find a way for him to have extra support with his Other trials while we work things out. Thank you for your response ♥️

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