Worried about Epilepsy's Impact on My Growth as an Adult

I appreciate your understanding very much as well as your input. I also wish healing in your life and that you find peace as well 💕

A year ago, I began getting non-epileptic seizures and haven’t been able/allowed to drive since (I’m 31). It’s really frustrating. I don’t have great advice, but extending my hand in understanding. I’ve had to become very dependent on my wife for anything that makes me leave the house (or even things like wanting to take a bath, I have to be monitored now). I haven’t been on a plane since the seizures started because they already scare me and my seizures are triggered by stress.

Lots of adults can't drive for one reason or another. I'm 23 and don't have a license because I have a medical condition that prevents me from being able to drive safely. Do you have public transport where you live? Learning the bus system may help you feel more independent. Your mother will never not worry about you, she's your mom, she'd worry about you even if you didn't have epilepsy. If you don't have public transport, get a bike, skateboard, any wheels you don't need a license for. For your safety and to help your mom feel better, tell her exactly where you're going and how long you expect to be gone, that you'll let her know if you're gonna be late. That last bit is crucial, because you also need to instruct your mom to find you or call 911 if she hasn't heard from you/can't reach you and it's past when you said you'd be home. It seems dramatic, but unfortunately I know from experience that it could very well save your life