If your meds are causing such severe side effects I would definitely schedule an appointment with your doctor and see if they can be changed.

I've already been to two different appointments recently and brought it up both times, the first one didn't even say anything other then he doubts that I'm autistic and the other one told me to talk to a different doctor I won't be able to see for months. I'm at a lost

You might have to start getting pushy /nm. I'd say call them to schedule an appointment for a change of meds and tell them all of the problems its causing. Make a list if you need to. You got this and you are strong!