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Lonelyturtle

2y ago

Need advice on ADHD questionnaire

I finally tested to get tested for ADHD but one of the questionnaires requires you to take it home and have a parent fill it out to talk about your childhood adhd symptoms. My parents don’t believe in adhd LOL, any advice on what I can do? I was thinking about asking them to take the questionnaire but if they don’t believe in it.. they are probably going to be very biased. Not sure what to do.

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Soskae

2y ago

I personally am going through a similar thing right now. What I’m doing is basically only telling my parents what they need to know. I said something along the lines of “we’re trying to figure out what’s going on so please answer honestly.” So they aren’t intentionally answering against the conditions I think I have. I’m still in the process of it so idk if that’s the best advice but that’s what I’m doing.
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Saint_Julian

2y ago

Does it have to be a parent that fills it out? I just had to have someone who knew me very well (so I had my sister fill it out). If this is the case, do you have any siblings or very close friends/family friends that could do it?
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Heaven197987

2y ago

All them the questions without them knowing why tell them afterwards this why they are more honest in their answers
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Fauna

2y ago

Fortunately, I had a parent who was supportive of my medicine, but I had another who hated the idea of me being medicated. Because of them, I have a really messy and convoluted history with different medicines (or lack of medicine). It's really difficult when you rely on a parent who really just can't seem to get it. Maybe you have a therapist or similar resource you can reach out to to help mediate, because it is so helpful to have even one parent on board. Wishing you the best! ❤️
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Oboeplaya94

2y ago

Had a similar problem, and my doctor was kind enough to understand since its unfortunately a common bias/fear parents have of documented mental illness (and the meds aspect I guess)
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Lonelyturtle

2y ago

ya I think I’m going to have to research out to the department and explain the situation.
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Jazzie1

2y ago

Do you have any old report cards or feedback from teachers as a kid? I’d hand those in. I’d let them know that they are biased. I might also ask if another family member could fill it out?
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Lonelyturtle

2y ago

yeah I do but most of them would probably show that I didn’t have it lol because I’m a girl and pretty sure I have the inattentive type so you wouldn’t really have seen it. I’ve also always been a pretty good student because my parents were really strict about my grades and I also have a lot of anxiety so I always made sure to get things done even though I would procrastinate on everything lol.
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crown_dwarf

2y ago

How are you getting tested? Do your parents know?
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Lonelyturtle

2y ago

at my healthcare system, it’s a multiple step process and the first step is taking a packet home and having it filled out by yourself, one part is filled out by a parent( someone who knew you as a child) and one part is filled out by a close friend or family member. Then, if you meet criteria for adhd they bring you in for an evaluation with the psychiatrist.
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Lonelyturtle

2y ago

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