Dealing with ADHD, ARFID, and Unintentional Weight Loss

Hi, I'm The Weeble. I'm from Nevada, and I have combined type ADHD. I wasn't diagnosed until I was 19, so I also have former gifted kid syndrome. I'm not comfortable with the stimulant meds I've tried, because they change my personality, and I become less friendly and outgoing. my favorite medication is actually a 2:1 ratio of CBD: THC. I also have a related condition called ARFID, that I wasn't able to find here, so if anyone is familiar or can share some strategies to get around it, that would be so helpful! My biggest concern at the moment is that I can't stay interested in any food long enough to eat a whole meal anymore, and I'm losing weight unintentionally. Amy tips for maximizing calories would also be appreciated. other than that, if love to get to know some people in similar situations, so feel free to reach out and just introduce yourself 🙂