Can someone give me advice on being alone? Recently got out of a relationship and honestly the loneliness has been killer. I don’t see a reason to get up out of bed in the morning. My depression is destroying me I don’t want to do anything. I feel like I have been crying every night and having dreams about my ex’s keeps drawing me back. It’s hard to forget someone when you see them every night in your sleep. I talk in my sleep and sweat and wake up disassociating because I can’t stop thinking about my dreams and how he was there in my dream and I saw him again. Any advice?


Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

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  • Puffs


    I’m literally going through the exact same thing. My first relationship of 3 years ended last week, and I also am having recurring dreams about getting married and having kids/beautiful adventures. I wish I could give you advice, but I’m just as lost and clueless. Just know that you’re not alone, and if you ever need somebody to vent to, I 100% understand how you’re feeling!

  • NickPapaGeorgio


    I'm not burdened with hopeful dreams but I am also having a difficult time with my breakup. The dreams of kids and marriage are ones they put in my head and now that it's over I'm left with no future or family with the person I really thought was the one. I can't help change the subject matter of your dreams but much like Puffs said above, I can offer a listening ear or a conversation about whatever it is that brings you joy. DM whenever.

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