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darklover

488d

what do I do I need to confess to the girl of my dreams before she leaves the country she is coming back in a year I have known her for a year and I don't know how to tell her everything I tried my anxiety stopped me I don't know what to do please give me some love advice 🙏💗

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    • Eren2273

      486d

      Do it. Just go for it. Take the chance. You might never get another one ever again after she leaves, so the time is now

    • Eren2273

      486d

      Do it. Just go for it. Take the chance. You might never get another one ever again after she leaves, so the time is now

    • Rosepool

      486d

      Honestly that’s so messed up that she handled you like that when you were just being honest. You wouldent want to be with someone who is homophonic anyway or friends with someone like that. I am also lesbian so I understand. Honestly if she feels weird it’s understandable, but she can’t judge you for how you feel. She can choose to not want to be friends anymore but she should respect the fact you told her and we’re honest so you weren’t doing anything behind her back or deceiving her anymore. I’m proud of you !❤️

      • darklover

        486d

        @Rosepool yes thx but I still feel bad she said I was crazy in the head and needed medical help jokes on her I already go to therapy 😄😄

        • Rosepool

          486d

          @darklover medical help for what ?

    • GoldenFume

      487d

      Something I'd try, but if you have trouble with wording I'd try structuring it based on it's subject. Love is a very broad thing, never really black and white. Something that helps me write is thinking it's kinda like a book. Not too much description, but enough to "catch their eye". Take what you like and scrap the rest too, because it can be overwhelming when trying to gather feelings as strong as that.

      • darklover

        487d

        @GoldenFume thanks

        • darklover

          486d

          @darklover Ok guys turned out she is homophobic and I am lesbian and gender fluid so.... I was rejected quite badly she thought we were sisters 😭😭😞 and she said I was disgusting and now I don't want to go anywhere 😞😭😞 I feel terrible 😔😞

    • darklover

      487d

      I know but she will return in an year 😔

      • Rosepool

        487d

        @darklover a year seems like a long time when you think about it … but it will go by fast trust me . I know it doesn’t seem like it, but some feelings can still be there in a year. Tell her . You have to prose she won’t know. And plus maybe you can FaceTime, video chat, talk on messenger, while she’s away in another country so when she returns you can reconnect.

        • Rosepool

          487d

          @Rosepool Don’t wait too long.

    • SerenaS

      487d

      I can understand, how about writing how you feel whether it's a letter or in text portraying how you really feel. It could also be a voice recording if you'd like. 😊🌹 Think of things you'd like to ask her. Examples: I've known you in a year and in that time I really ___________ and hope you also feel the same way. It's only a suggestion

      • darklover

        487d

        @SerenaS thx I tried it but nothing I threw the letter and ended up deleting re writing the text several times idk my anxiety doesn't let me but now she is leaving and idk what to do

        • SerenaS

          487d

          @darklover Awwww I'm so sorry to hear that she is leaving soon. Hope everything all be okay within time.

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