Feeling Like a Failure After Losing a Loved One

You're not a failure we've all been there and when you lose someone it's hard and you lose your focus you're not alone everyone goes through this. You can always reach out to a school counselor to get help on it they'll help you with grief and going through hard times. I've felt angry too like it's my fault my grandma died but it's not and it's not your fault either. You are not your depression and it's something you can't control so don't feel bad about it because we can't change it. You can always message me if you need to talk I understand and I'm sorry for your loss but I promise you will get better with time 🙏🙏🙏🙏💕

Hey Sooooooo sorry for your loss!!!!!! you're not a failure!! Depression is a nasty thing and sometimes we think we have it handled and then bam something happens and we realise that we don't!! You need to look after you!! Exams can wait...... In the grand scheme of things you are more important!!! And I'm sure that if you hadn't deferred the exam and done bad it would have made the feeling much worse ( sorry if that sounds bad I mean that in a nice way, but can't think of a better way to write it) YOU MATTER!!!! Take care of you first I'm sure that's what your close family friend would have wanted you to do to look after you first?!?! ..... Grief is hard!! And you have to take time to process what has happened.... however that maybe I know when I lost my uncle the way I delt was I wrote him letters to work though my grief because I found it easier to write my feeling down as I couldn't process them in my head, I stored them away and when I was ready I read them... I then burnt them as a way to send them to my uncle in the afterlife (my personal belief) But know this your feelings are valid!!! Sending hugs and my thoughts are with you.... my messages are open if you need someone to talk to :)

I feel this. I did so bad on my final exams last semester since I let my depression get so bad. I stopped attending classes, and never showed up for tests. I honestly beat myself up about it, but you only learn from your past and use it to motivate. You got this ❤

I was finally starting to feel better too ... I'm so sad.