Dealing with a Straight Male Who Won't Accept I'm Lesbian

Definitely get a restrainginh order on him x

I completely agree with what's been said. However I feel you also need support right now so I'm here for you. Dm me if you'd like.

Bro another response to the 'ill dress up in drag' thing, a man dressed as a girl is still a man. It's not the clothes you are attracted to and what's more he is socialised as a man. He will still act like one and you clearly don't like or want that

I’m also a lesbian I spent wayyyy too damn long showing kindness to mens advances because they weren’t aggressive but a no is a no. Does not matter how nice he may seem he obviously isn’t thinking about your wishes nor your boundaries or your comfort and that is a shame. I used to think as long as they weren’t aggressive I should be kind and nice but realized how truly disrespectful and invalidating it was. My girlfriend is a fem and she gets advances by males often they NEVER take her seriously. If she says she has a girlfriend they think she’s lying or want a three way. Me on the other hand I am a masc and they believe me. It’s just plain disrespectful and not okay.

Block him. Cut him off. Avoid him. With people who are over persistent its not usually safe to be alone with them either so I would avoid that at all costs

Honestly, I'd suggest not talking to him altogether because he's not respecting you, nor is he actually listening to what you're saying. I wouldn't even have suggested staying friends, because he's just gonna keep bothering you. I'm sorry you have to go through this, tho

well hun. first off, not all lesbians have a vagina. not all women have a vagina. so if you have a genital preference that's fine, but doesn't automatically make you a lesbian if that's all you're looking for. if you found out you were a lesbian after that experience with him then that's fine though, but if you're just traumatized of penises then eh that may be a bit different. if he is not respecting your boundaries then it's time for him to hit the road. you can't "fix" lesbians etc, that's just who you are. he needs to respect that. even if you are soulmates, you'll come back together then if that's the case. he can't force it. best of luck

if he doesn’t take no for an answer or accepts who you truly are i don’t think he’s good to have in your life:/ life comes with a lot of difficult choices and maybe choosing to keep him out of your life can reduce that stress and all you to become who you want to be without having to explain yourself all the time! i had a boy who stalked me for two years it was when i threatened with the police he finally left me alone. reaching out to his family is also a way to get him to stop

Girl imma be honest get a restraining order