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Emax

668d

Has anyone else had problems with pornography addiction? I've been struggling with this compulsion on and off over the years and I really want to stop but it's so hard. How has your experience been?

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    • hsupermann

      667d

      Mine started at around the same time my depression and most of my mental health issues started showing up after a traumatic experience where one of my trauma responses was being hypersexual (still struggle with it off and on 8ish years later), a 13-14 yr old in an extremely conservative religious environment doesn't have much room for hypersexuality without turning to that kinda stuff...I still read erotica all the time but I feel like that's better than watching porn but that's mainly bc I watched so much of it all the time that it stopped working for me...I think a little here and there is not necessarily a bad thing but when you can say you are addicted to it it then becomes an issue, I'm using erotica novels to kinda transition out of and away from feeling like I need it, of course actually hooking up with someone helps so much more but that's not always available lol

    • regularsizedrudy

      667d

      My husband has struggled with this and used covenant eyes, which is a Christian company but is good also just as a practical service. You choose a good friend/romantic partner/whoever and it sends them weekly reports with screenshots of things it flags as pornography. It can be kind of sensitive (like flagging it if you shop for swimsuits) but I think it's mostly been helpful

    • hsupermann

      667d

      Mine started at around the same time my depression and most of my mental health issues started showing up after a traumatic experience where one of my trauma responses was being hypersexual (still struggle with it off and on 8ish years later), a 13-14 yr old in an extremely conservative religious environment doesn't have much room for hypersexuality without turning to that kinda stuff...I still read erotica all the time but I feel like that's better than watching porn but that's mainly bc I watched so much of it all the time that it stopped working for me...I think a little here and there is not necessarily a bad thing but when you can say you are addicted to it it then becomes an issue, I'm using erotica novels to kinda transition out of and away from feeling like I need it, of course actually hooking up with someone helps so much more but that's not always available lol

      • Emax

        667d

        @hsupermann That sounds like a good idea. Kinda like e-cigarettes to help control smoking lol. Hooking up would be obviously great but I have such low self-esteem that I can't even successfully find a partner, and that's been the main reason I'm seriously planning to fully quit. It's not easy tho :(

    • MintLad

      668d

      I think addiction can be a strong word. I personally don't believe that pornography is bad, as long as it's in moderation. Like Kelean said, as long as it doesn't interfere with your school, work, or public life in general, you should be fine. And, a lot of people say that porn destroys your imagination. If anything, watching porn and reading erotica has expanded my imagination and allowed me the articulation to start writing my own stories. Masturbation is just as normal and healthy as sex. As long as you do so in moderation.

    • captain_pike

      668d

      I've had similar issues and I'm worried about the long term effects.

      • Emax

        667d

        @captain_pike Same. And I'm afraid the long term effects are very much real. It's just like a drug, really

    • Kelean

      668d

      It's really common amongst male teens and young adults; so if you fall into that category- don't feel so weird. As a kid i had the same issue and finding a companion certainly helped but i realized that as long as it didn't interfere with my life (school, work, spending habits, eat and sleep) it wasn't a big deal.

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