Longing for Love: Coping with a Long Distance Relationship

FrostBadger

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my depressions really bad tonight. I don't live with my boyfriend and we've been together for nearly 3 years.. he's been done super dirty by past partners and I'm sure is scared to love with anyone else. but listening to my friend banter playfully with her ol man breaks my heart... I want that... I miss him so much sometimes and being in a sorta long distance relationship and only getting to see him once a month is killing me. I just wanna be able to roll over in the middle of the night from one of my vivid nightmares and see his face.. I wanna make his coffee in the mornings before he leaves for work.. I just... I miss him when we aren't together... prolly stupid to even bitch about... but its just really getting to me tonight...

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    • LeighRose

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      I know how that feels before me and my partner moved in together all I wanted was to be with him. How long has it been since you talked to him about potentially moving in together? If it's been a bit maybe bring it up again, explain how it's effecting you mentally and see if he's more open to the idea or can give you a timeline?

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    • LeighRose

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      I know how that feels before me and my partner moved in together all I wanted was to be with him. How long has it been since you talked to him about potentially moving in together? If it's been a bit maybe bring it up again, explain how it's effecting you mentally and see if he's more open to the idea or can give you a timeline?

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      • FrostBadger

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        @LeighRose he knows how upset I am but all he really says is I know baby, or I do wanna live with you baby.. He has to get another cat because his is on its literally last leg and after that he says he wants to start looking but idk how long it'll be before he gets another car. He hasnt mentioned looking at any or anything. I know his last two ex's hurt him and did him wrong and its messed him up on living with someone again but I'm not them. I don't want to do anything that'll hurt him.

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        • LeighRose

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          @FrostBadger ☹️ I know you don't want to hurt him but he also shouldn't just get to hurt you either. I hope things get better for you guys soon, maybe he would be comfortable with you staying for a few days or a week when you do get to see him, give h a little sample of how nice it would be to live with you.

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