Loneliness and Pain on Disability

Ugh! I know that feeling ALL to well unfortunately. I at 1 rime was so bad I would even keep my kids home from school with me. 😥 When my 16 year old went to live with her dad and then my husband went back to work, I was so scared. I didn't want to tell anyone because I knew what they would all say and how they would all look at me. Smh I'm slowly working myself back into things and it's so hard. I try to push myself to leave the house even if it's just to get the mail or take care of the trash. Prayers that thing's get better for you girl! 💕

@LaurElizabeth I am not sure if you are creative or do crafts or anything like that, but many women who work from home or stay at home make crafts or digital products and sell them on sites like Etsy. Not only does it enrich your life and give you something to do with meeting new people, but you can create a new source of income as well. It is worth looking into.

I understand a lot. I talk to a lot of people online though. Le a ve messages and watch videos. Its not the same but it is SOMETHING.

Ya it is a great idea and it is something I do enjoy but idk I been trying to volunteer for a local dog/animal rescue I did it once for a few hours ……and was in bed for 2 days after :[ but I still want to try more! I loved spending time with the dogs 🐶 and it was nice to be out and social more I rele did enjoy it

Spend the time learning something new

I’m sorry I have fibromyalgia too, I know it’s not fun. Maybe listening to some calm music will relax you, l like doing art to keep busy for a few hours. I hope you find something you like.

Or even volunteer somewhere. I know in my tiny town the health care center and nursing home are almost always looking for volunteers to help with meals, read to those that don't get visitors, etc.

You can talk to me anytime 😊

I am in the exact same situation. I (unexpectedly) got pregnant and was terrified, especially being on my own during the day, that I wouldn't be able to handle the responsibility. It was helped me keep a routine (though at times it's quite difficult). But I find having a personal routine at home (while still being flexible) is helpful. I also do a volunteer work helping teach others the Bible online. I can do it when I feel well enough, and skip it when I need to rest. It helps keep me connected to other people and focused on helping others.

I'm sorry you feel lonely, it can be hard.