I’m not in a situation like this now but I hate when I tell people I have bpd and it’s caused problems in previous relationships and that they don’t have to stay if I cause issues; they say stuff like “I’ll never leave you I promise” or “your bpd won’t change anything”; and then like when I display traits they act like I am evil and then leave. Not saying that any negative thing I said or did is not my fault because I am not the victim. But I just wish people would listen a little more and try to understand me instead of feeding little validations into my ears. This might be controversial but idk
I have people act like there's absolutely no way I could act in a way to make anyone leave me now because surely all of that was in the past but they don't see me on my bad days or with the people I trust who I can be more open with my feelings around
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I’m not in a situation like this now but I hate when I tell people I have bpd and it’s caused problems in previous relationships and that they don’t have to stay if I cause issues; they say stuff like “I’ll never leave you I promise” or “your bpd won’t change anything”; and then like when I display traits they act like I am evil and then leave. Not saying that any negative thing I said or did is not my fault because I am not the victim. But I just wish people would listen a little more and try to understand me instead of feeding little validations into my ears. This might be controversial but idk
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