i thought i found my forever person too, and lost them. you're not alone, give it time and take the lessons you learned from this relationship with you. x

I was in the same predicament a year ago and I learned several things: 1. You don’t want anyone who doesn’t want you. If he left, he’s a jerk and he clearly wasn’t the one. Also, it’s great that he didn’t become your husband one day because divorce is way messier than a breakup. 2. God has better things in store. 3. Sometimes being alone is the upgrade. 4. You will get over him, you will move on, and you will come out of this stronger. There is no special formula to this, it just comes down to one thing: having patience. Keep focusing on the fact that one day, you won’t feel pain anymore when he crosses your mind. 5. Listen to Before He Cheats (by Carrie Underwood), I Will Survive, and lots of Kelly Clarkson :) 6. The ultimate key to not missing him anymore and beginning to like yourself again is by becoming angry at him. Every time you feel yourself missing him, remember what he did to you. You won’t miss him that much after practicing this a lot. 7. your worth DOES NOT DEPEND ON THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN YOUR LIFE OR THE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT YOU ARE IN. Your worth depends on the fact that you were created by God who loves you and wants you here for a specific purpose. Don’t let some jerk dictate your value ❤️

He didn't do anything to me... everything was going perfectly.... he was so loving and nice to me....

Yeah that really sucks, I’m sorry you had to go through that. I had a girlfriend a couple years ago that I felt was perfect at the time, she was pretty, sweet, quirky, was very accepting, and we shared a amount of interests. We dated for a couple months and we tried a relationship out eventually, three weeks later she broke up with me. She has some issues she needed to work out and she felt she couldn’t do it in a relationship. I didn’t do anything and she said as much. I’d wager it’s the same with your boyfriend, but who am I to guess. But regardless it kinda hurt because that’s the only relationship I was in and when she’s the only one that took my hand, it’s kinda hard to see anyone else better. But trust me, there’s someone out there just for you. You just haven’t found that person yet. You just need to be in the right place and in the right time. You’ll find him. Stay strong, and keep busy with things that bring you joy and you will whether the storm. I believe in you girl :))

that happened to me too, but then i just found a better person. you always find a better person after you think you have found the “best” person.