Hey I’ll talk if you want. I lost my husband in February and sometimes I feel so alone

I am at a bar right now, no friends but you know what I’m like screw I’m gonna have fun being in my skin. I think if one day I find more friends it will be because of mindset shift and not looking at my constant setbacks

Sending you the best wishes tho!

Totally get that! Anxiety makes it even harder to make friends or get into a relationship, but then I used to also feel anxious about not having enough friends and not being in a relationship. You are 100% worthwhile and there is nothing wrong with being exactly who you are, but I know that can be difficult to internalize and suffering from anxiety gets lonely. It’s really difficult to be told to relax or to put yourself out there when you’ve spent a lifetime trying to do that, so I’m not going to tell you that. What I will say is that I’m here if you need someone to talk to and that what you are feeling is completely ok to feel