Honeybee999

150d

What do i do??? Im going home tomorrow and i dread it because of my current relationship...he used to be the sweetest man i knew until like 3 weeks ago, its just a repeating cycle of apologizing and doing it again, i just dont want to break up with him because he broke all his video games to get me to stay but i dont know because hes so mean sometimes but he can be so sweet, ive loved him for almost 3 years and i dont know what ill do without him but, ive given him multiple chances and he hasnt done anything big aince our last talk but idk, do i wait for him to do it again or do i end it???

Anxiety (Including GAD)

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  • GaymerGirl96

    150d

    Oh honey. You and I are both on the same boat. May we get the strength to move from toxicity and manipulation

    • Honeybee999

      150d

      i got my second family behind me and i think im ready i hope you eventually feel ready to leave too just message me if ya need!

  • dearestdoe

    150d

    this does not sound like a healthy relationship anymore at all and the best thing would be for you to end it, but i dont want you to go into it unprepared. do you have another place you can stay? are you able to financially support yourself, or is there someone who's willing to help you? my best advice is to not be physically with him if and when you do end it, especially if you think he's a danger to you. if you have anybody irl who can help you in any way, i really strongly recommend that you reach out to them and ask for help. it doesnt make you weak, i promise. my mom (and us kids) finally got away from my father when i was about 15. it was hard emotionally and financially for a while, but it was the best decision she could have made for us. leaving is so scary because everything seems really uncertain, but facing that temporary uncertainty is better in the long run than staying with someone whos making you feel like this. youre always welcome to message me if you need to talk. i wish you the best of luck and hope things get better for you soon. you dont deserve to be treated like that.

    • Honeybee999

      150d

      thank you, really and i talked with someone close to me just hours ago, im leaving the relationship when i get home, and hopefully things go remotely ok,thank you again, the support means a lot

      • dearestdoe

        150d

        i'm very very proud of you, i know its scary but youve got this!!

  • NiteNuisance

    150d

    It's one thing if they fuck up and than work on themselves and change, but if it's just a continuous cycle and that you know for a fact is going to happen again, than save yourself. You deserve better

    • Honeybee999

      150d

      thank you and yea i cant deal with the way he talks to me anymore, im changing some things

  • Zeeloo

    150d

    Get out while you can. Make a plan and go. I can tell you from personal experience... It doesn't get better. Only worse. This sounds extremely toxic and manipulative. Try reaching out to a local shelter for resources. There's help out there. Sending you hopes for all the strength you need to make the decision that is best you you and your well being.

    • Honeybee999

      150d

      thank you, i cant explain in words how much the encouragment means to me, im going to do it i just need to get it over with but carefully, thank you again

  • Zeeloo

    69d

    ❤️

  • nsiberian

    69d

    If it doesn't bring you peace happiness or good vibes, no matter is its a person or a materialistic object... get rid of it!!! Why hang around on eggshells waiting for anger and violence. Please reach out for help to get going on your own. I promise you will feel so much better once you can regain your sanity back with out any interference

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