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Feeling Worthless: My Struggle to Find Love

NervousDepresso

681d

I'm beginning to accept that I'll never find a relationship. With no money and no job, I'm not worth anyone's time. I know tons of girls who all say that "personality is what's most important" but that's a load of crap. I may have countless flaws and problems, but I also have plenty of amazing qualities that make me a great guy. But none of them mean a damn thing unless I have a job and money. That's all anyone f***ing cares about. So to every woman out there, I'm completely worthless and would be a waste of their time.

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    • Harley.Q

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      Dude I mean I get u feel like you can't get a girl but I mean all these people been trying to tell you something but it seems as though your not actually understanding what they are meaning it don't matter what your doing or what you're not doing if you are meant to meet the right woman you will find her I mean you gotta go to the store to get groceries and I'm sure that one day you might find a job or something to make money and you'll be off ur couch and out ur house. But honestly you never know the right person may show up at ur house but either way in this time that ur not with someone you should just work on the values you have and want to have and work on finding a good career if you want or can... but that's my opinion and advice use it to make urself better or don't it's up to you....

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    • Harley.Q

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      Dude I mean I get u feel like you can't get a girl but I mean all these people been trying to tell you something but it seems as though your not actually understanding what they are meaning it don't matter what your doing or what you're not doing if you are meant to meet the right woman you will find her I mean you gotta go to the store to get groceries and I'm sure that one day you might find a job or something to make money and you'll be off ur couch and out ur house. But honestly you never know the right person may show up at ur house but either way in this time that ur not with someone you should just work on the values you have and want to have and work on finding a good career if you want or can... but that's my opinion and advice use it to make urself better or don't it's up to you....

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    • JBug7677

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      You are so young! You never know when you'll meet Ms Right. I'm 44....met the love of my life a couple years ago, while I was in a bad relationship....you never know what or who is just around the corner.....take care of yourself and when you're not expecting it, she'll show up!

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      • NervousDepresso

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        @JBug7677 but no one can show up in my life. I don't do anything or go anywhere. I can rarely get myself to get off the couch and do anything, no matter how small. I can't work. I have no social circle. I'm all alone in the world.

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    • JupiterGhost

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      I mean this in a completely joking way, but have you tried the lads if that's up your ally too? šŸ˜‚ No, in all seriousness, the best relationships happen when you least expect them. I met my fiance when I was eating rice at 2am in my college dorm room while playing Among Us! My fiance doesn't have a hs diploma, job, or ged. I love him all the same. There is someone out there. Also, please don't put all of your self worth into your relationship status. Trust me, that will do more harm than good

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      • NervousDepresso

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        @JupiterGhost I'm not putting my self worth into my relationship status. The problem is that I'm not worth anything to others.

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        • JupiterGhost

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          @NervousDepresso Ah, I understand. I'm sorry, I misunderstood. Either way, you'll find the right person one day. I know that advice is frustrating as hell, but it's unfortunately true

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    • SleepyMel

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      I know how you feel to a different extent. Mine isn't money and a job. Mine is kids and lack of time. Guys don't want a single parent in her late 30s. First step I took was to stop looking and enjoy my kids. Second step I found things to make me happy as a single girl. The rest fell into place. I'm happy alone with my kids. If I'm supposed to be with a man, he will find me one day, otherwise I'm not dwelling on it.

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      • NervousDepresso

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        @SleepyMel well you have your kids. I have a wall to stare at all day

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    • Morticiasavage

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      You haven't gotten to know the right woman yet

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      • NervousDepresso

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        @Morticiasavage I haven't gotten to know any woman yet. No girl even gives me the time of day. Even my friends say they wouldn't be with their boyfriends if they didn't have jobs.

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    • zayzaymic2014

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      You just haven't found the right one yet

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      • NervousDepresso

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        @zayzaymic2014 I'm done waiting. I'm sick of spending all day everyday feeling alone and worthless. I'm a piece of shit, but I still deserve a chance at love dammit!

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        • zayzaymic2014

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          @NervousDepresso don't down your self ever one has there days

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    • Harley.Q

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      Ur crazy clearly ur going for women who don't care about personality ya having a job is a good thing but u need find someone whose down to earth and brings u up to be the best person u can be. I think you just ain't found the woman for u... just do you for now and I'm sure in time you'll find the woman ur meant to be with

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      • NervousDepresso

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        @Harley.Q I'm not "going for" any real type of woman. All I'm looking for is someone who makes me feel happy and loved, and who I make feel the same about me. I'm sick and f***ing tired of waiting around for the right girl, when there isn't one. No one wants to be with a guy who doesn't work, and can't afford to go do things. And btw, don't EVER call someone crazy. It's insulting and inconsiderate.

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        • Harley.Q

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          @NervousDepresso i apologize for that that's just how I talk I wasn't meaning it in a mean way I was just meaning maybe ur looking too hard for the right woman in the wrong places

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