My Day Was Ruined By A Dog Fight

My bio dad was horrible. He used drugs all the time (and I'm sure he still does. I haven't talked to him in close to 2 years now) he has slaped/hit my step mom, thrown things, nearly killed my step mom with a butcher knife. He has been in prison so much of my life growing up and was actually in prison when I was born. I have tried to have a relationship with him but I got to the point to where I just wasn't comfortable around him and I know its a two way street but I just stopped reaching out to him and he has never once reached out to me since then and with my father-in-law I thought I would maybe have a chance learning some things from him like a daughter is supposed to learn from there father and for a while he was amazing until they had to move into the same home as us and now he is acting like he owns the place when it's only because of his wife's mother they actually have a place to live. Now we have 8 people living in one house and he is only worried about himself and the next time he gets high (his wife has a medical card). Is all he does is sit outside all day and smoke. He used to cook almost every night but now he doesn't cook at all. He used to use drugs but he has been clean besides the one thing and i know he has PTSD, anxiety, and depression but he doesn't want to get help for it at all. He is constantly making comments on how he would rather be back in jail because he actually gets respect there but he doesn't give any respect to anyone else. My fiance has asthma real bad and he cant handle being around cigarette smoke because it makes it hard for him to breathe and for a little bit his grandma was trying to get everyone to quit smoking in the house but he never did so thin my fiance's mother started smoking in the house again and now everyone is again. He constantly leaves a trail of ashes because he doesn't use an ashtray besides when he is in their room or he is putting one out and my fiance's and my room almost constantly have cigarette smoke coming in from under the door because they just chain smoke in their room and it just filters out under the door and right into ours. Their bedroom is right across from ours plus the qc intake is right in between our doors. It gets so frustrating at times

I'm sorry 😞 that sounds extremely stressful. Dog fights are so serious and they definitely should've helped break up the fight instead of arguing with you. Future tip, air horns can help in situations with dog fights! If you blow it near them when they're fighting, it's startles them and they let go of each other. That way no people get hurt, and no dogs get severely hurt. I'm sorry that he treats you like that, my dad used to treat me the same way tbh, luckily I don't talk to him anymore.