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poodlelover28

413d

TW // s*icidal thoughts . . . . . . I just want to d*e. My dating life is literally the worst. This time, I invited this girl over and I thought things were going good and we even cuddled while we slept but when I woke up she was gone. All her stuff was gone and then I went outside and the gate was open and her car was gone so I checked social media and she removed me on everything so I can't even message her to say wtf. I don't think I'm meant for this life honestly. Stuff like this literally happens all the time.

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    • poodlelover28

      408d

      @superstellar thank you!

    • superstellar

      411d

      one of the things my therapist has always told me about these things is to take YOURSELF out of the equation. we tend to focus on what we did wrong instead of outside factors, especially with anxiety. there are thousands of different reasons she could’ve left/ghosted, and so few of them have to do with you. i agree with what other people have said here— it is not personal, and it so rarely ever is. if you need to talk abt this further, don’t hesitate 2 send me a message! there is still so much time left in your life, and there are 8 billion other people out there waiting for you to find them. please do not cut your life short because of one. ❤️

      • poodlelover28

        408d

        @superstellar thank you!

    • cat69

      411d

      Prople are nessed up and most of the time the messed up stuff Is not PERSONAL. serioysly rinse and repeat " irs not personal" .... Find what you are passionate about, what brings yoy joy, sekf care etc ...take good care of you..treat yourself how you would want to treated...dont give up!

      • poodlelover28

        408d

        @cat69 thank you!

    • Rueuwu

      412d

      My bf rn had the same as you for real but now he’s very happy. Believe me when I say there’s someone out there for everyone and one day you’ll look back and laugh. Try to focus on hobbies and things that’ll increase your self esteem for now, being happy within yourself is more important because that way you won’t base your self worth on another individual. I’m rooting for you! ( ᐛ )و

    • ItsJustMe

      412d

      There's roughly 165 million plus women in this country.. never fret over one.. there are all different shapes, sizes, colors and flavors out there, try to enjoy as many as you can before you find the right one. Don't try to be too serious too quick with any of them. Enjoy them for who they are and if it goes somewhere, fine, and if it doesn't, that's okay too.

      • Tofu14

        412d

        @ItsJustMe eww girls aren’t a flavor to be sampled and enjoyed. That’s really creepy. This also makes us sound like an expendable resource. I agree that OP will find someone one day and that’s what you were trying to say but be a bit more respectful.

      • poodlelover28

        412d

        @ItsJustMe thank you

    • harrystyleslover

      412d

      i’m so sorry. i’m not going to give you some sob story as to why you should stay because let’s be honest, i’ve been in your shoes and that shit don’t work. I’ve lost 2 brothers to su!c!de. one while i was in 8th grade and the other last year. My second brother ended his life over his girlfriend cheating on him. he was only 16 years old and just gotten his license. i’m sorry you feel the way you do, i know it seems tempting. remember hotlines are always available and these thoughts won’t last forever

      • poodlelover28

        412d

        @harrystyleslover thank you so much! I'm so sorry for your losses!

    • Tofu14

      413d

      It really sucks that she ghosted you. You will get through this and you will find someone who truest loves and appreciates you. Hang on.

      • poodlelover28

        412d

        @Tofu14 thank you!

    • Harley100719

      413d

      Dating and relationships are complicated and people are hard to understand just know there are people who care about you and who are here for you I'm sorry this happened to you I'm always here for you

      • poodlelover28

        413d

        @Harley100719 thank you so much ❤️

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