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Ash66

483d

So I planned something fun of my dicord server ( was supposed to be hosted last last night).But I couldn't do it last night because of stuff. when I told everybody what I planned my friend said they already did an event like that yesterday keep in mind they didn't tell us until the last minute.So ya now they're having a sleepover with half of what I wanted to do in it.Bit I still upset do I have the right to be?

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    • mthebrave

      483d

      Can you ask to join the sleepover and help host next time? Try not to take it personally or distance yourself, the group is just continuing things as a group as originally planned and there's no reason why you can't still join 😊

    • t4t

      483d

      Yeah, it’s okay to feel upset that there was imperfect communication.

    • mthebrave

      483d

      Why were they upset? You can't please everybody, and have to take care of yourself first 😊

      • Ash66

        483d

        @mthebrave To me I think it was because A they felt outed or B they thought it was a waste of time.

    • mthebrave

      483d

      Can you ask to join the sleepover and help host next time? Try not to take it personally or distance yourself, the group is just continuing things as a group as originally planned and there's no reason why you can't still join 😊

      • Ash66

        483d

        @mthebrave Yes I suppose so!I would never want to come off as controlling .But she did something similar last night.She hosted a meeting to help people with their problems I guess .She basically just reed off people problems they put in the rant chat . After that my boyfriend said multiple people came to my boyfriend upset.So I don't know what to do.

    • Dollette

      483d

      Yes ofc! It seems like you were really looking forward to doing that, it’s not a surprise you’re upset

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