Why do I get no response when I reach out for support?

Is it just me or why is it that everytime I try to reach out to a friend or family member for support that I get zero response? Its not like Im asking or complaining a lot, every now and then, instead of sucking it up and faking it like everythings fine, i raise my hand to say i need help and crickets are all i hear, im not expecting a solution, all Im asking for is a sounding board, someone to listen, to possibly understand all the crazy shit I deal with on a day to day basis. it makes feel like im too much of a hot mess that no one wants to deal with. The problem is, when I fake it, people gravitate towards me, but when im struggling its like im poison....i get it but at the same time i just dont...