Struggling to Make My Husband Happy

Does your husband know what you are feeling? Have you two actually say down and had a conversation about BOTH of your feelings?

I can completely understand this feeling. It hurts just to exist. Hugs 🫂

Thank you everyone for all your kind words. I am still here, still fighting.

By the way, with my second husband there was no abuse but there was no pleasing him, and one night I sat in a parking lot and cried and begged I could have someone who would just love me. And I believe God heard me because after I divorced, I met my husband. And we've never had a cross word or argument. I'm kind to him and he's kind to me.

I've been there. It's better to leave and go to a woman's shelter than end your life. I left my husband. Nothing I did satisfied him. And he was abusive. I had two little kids. I felt stuck. I went to a recruiting station a joined the Marines and he helped my husband sign Mt paperwork and make it all work our. My parents took my kids and we stayed married until I got out of bootcamp and then I filed for divorce. I had free housing for me and my kids, a paycheck and money they paid extra for groceries and it was the best thing I did. I'm not saying you should join the military, but you can figure a way to make yourself happy. Go home and live with your mom and dad or get counseling with your husband. I've been married three times. This husband is good to me and understands my depression and all my medical problems and loves me even when I can't clean the house and do things I know he would love for me to do.

😥I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is to try to please someone who just won't try. Stay strong and do what's best for you💕