paintandchalk

244d

just got into a huge fight with my bf over him taking a job that would make him/ us a lot more money but would mean him not being home at night and God forbid if he got stuck down there this job is a half hr away by car but with public transportation take upwards of 2 hrs like I freaked out and. he started screaming and he started yelling but I'm so scared and anxious and don't want him to leave me for something he may find out there he got wind of a job as a bouncer

Anxiety (Including GAD)

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  • Waffle1

    244d

    I understand where you’re coming from. If he truly loves you, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Love sometimes requires sacrifices on both sides. If this job is something he really wants support him in it but instead of just watching from the sidelines try to express your feelings to him and tell him about why you’re afraid of him getting this job. You’re going to feel a lot better when you’ve spoken with him about these things. Plus he can give you some reassurance. I hope this helps. I’m rooting for you, good luck!

  • paintandchalk

    243d

    This is what I just texted him I'm fresh out the psych hospital this week and I'm not gonna put up with any of this stuff This stuff this right here is what made me question my self my love and the issues I'm having not feeling like u want me and can't stand me when I did NOTHING WRONG u keep treating me like this were not gonna last much longer I was told to stand up for myself not to let ppl walk on me u were just now do u realize that that hurt me that u are angry and me not doing anything makes me feel like I'm not good enough well I am and I deserve better than that

  • paintandchalk

    243d

    But the way he just spoke to me the way he got pissed off cause his mom wasn't answering he became angry and petulant

    • Deb_T

      243d

      I truly am so you are going through this! Take slow deep breaths and slowly release!!! Know your self worth you’ve got this. Perhaps just settling down meditating or go for a walk will help you think things through. Revisit the conversation with bf when you both are settled down and can talk about the situation 🙌 I wish you both happiness and peace within 🙏

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