Struggling with Mental Health and Lack of Support from Family

Ive wish my mom would put aside what she thinks is wrong and isnt wrong with me and just actually help me seek the help i need. It took her seeing some buzzfeed article about ADHD for her to realize i have it and despite my years of obvious anxiety, still denied it AND my depression. It took me talking to my doctor on my own as an adult to get diagnosed and medicated for my severe anxiety. I now have to do all the talking and work for myself that my mom failed to do when i was a kid. I dont completely blame her or my dad because they had shitty upbringing but at the same time. Its been so damn obvious. Im nearly there though.