Upset over social interaction, am I in the wrong?

So I have a situation that made me really upset today. So, a bit of background me and a group of people were playing pickleball. me and some of my group were playing around and joking about the paddles. Apparently, one of my guy friends ended up saying a suggestion (in a joking matter of course), and said "Whack the butt!" and I knew what he was referencing to and I thought "omg haha" and "Oh lord ok!". On the way back, we did voting rounds (my group does voting rounds) and another guy friend of mine suggested to spend the night at my house and I thought " What?? no". Apparently it was about three of them. Then when we got back to our base home, two people in the group (not me) knocked on the door. One of the older adults answered the door and said that we were pounding on the door but it didn't sound like that to me. I said that it didn't sound like that to me (I said it in a calm manner) and then she got upset and said that we were pounding on the door not knocking I told her that maybe it sounded like that inside but not on the outside. She was having none of it got mad and walked away. Later I was getting stuff off my chest since I was upset and my guy friend (1st one I mentioned) and then she went to me but I wasn't talking to her and basically got told that I was makig mountains out of molehills but she refused to acknowledge my pov or even communicated with me about it and now my guy friend let's call him greg and now greg is ignoring me and just refuses to talk to me since I won't apologize to the older adult. I think he's also upset with me about something else but just not sure what. I just said that I will not apologize to someone who just refuses to acknowledge my pov. Am I in the wrong here?