AbbyO

44d

(personal question) Has anyone had a hard time c*ming during a sexual act. Like no matter how aroused you are it just won't happen. After being sexually assaulted? If so does anyone have any tips on how to have it happen?

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Anxiety (Including GAD)

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  • Teardrops

    43d

    To be honest I don’t…. I have been assaulted multiple times over the years. And its gotten so bad I don’t date or be intimate anymore. I wish you luck 🍀.

  • E_belli

    43d

    I'm the same way. It is just so difficult to let go when you've experienced trauma like that. I was with my ex for 7 years, married 3. Even tho it was lots of fun and very pleasurable, it just never happened for me with her. This sounds kinda weird, but try it by yourself first, when you're alone, that way your body knows that it has that capability without trauma happening in that moment. And once you can feel comfortable doing it by yourself I've heard it makes it a little easier to do with a partner. I haven't had a partner since I learned that so I can't confirm. But that is what a fellow survivor told me. Hope it helps.

  • Asteroidrose

    43d

    for me, yes.. if it's a man. if it is a woman than no

  • spicysugar

    43d

    Yeah that happens to me too. Partner gets tired before anything. I get really close but never happened

    • AbbyO

      43d

      any idea on how to get it to work before they get tired?

      • spicysugar

        43d

        I'm sorry, I have NO idea. I'm at the point where I don't really have physical attraction to anyone except them now so maybe that helps? That and just the cognitive knowledge that they would never hurt me purposefully like I had been by others in the past. I wish I had something helpful to share 😕

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