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AbbyO

547d

(personal question) Has anyone had a hard time c*ming during a sexual act. Like no matter how aroused you are it just won't happen. After being sexually assaulted? If so does anyone have any tips on how to have it happen?

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    • spicysugar

      546d

      @AbbyO I'm sorry, I have NO idea. I'm at the point where I don't really have physical attraction to anyone except them now so maybe that helps? That and just the cognitive knowledge that they would never hurt me purposefully like I had been by others in the past. I wish I had something helpful to share 😕

    • spicysugar

      546d

      Yeah that happens to me too. Partner gets tired before anything. I get really close but never happened

      • AbbyO

        546d

        @spicysugar any idea on how to get it to work before they get tired?

        • spicysugar

          546d

          @AbbyO I'm sorry, I have NO idea. I'm at the point where I don't really have physical attraction to anyone except them now so maybe that helps? That and just the cognitive knowledge that they would never hurt me purposefully like I had been by others in the past. I wish I had something helpful to share 😕

    • Asteroidrose

      546d

      for me, yes.. if it's a man. if it is a woman than no

    • E_belli

      546d

      I'm the same way. It is just so difficult to let go when you've experienced trauma like that. I was with my ex for 7 years, married 3. Even tho it was lots of fun and very pleasurable, it just never happened for me with her. This sounds kinda weird, but try it by yourself first, when you're alone, that way your body knows that it has that capability without trauma happening in that moment. And once you can feel comfortable doing it by yourself I've heard it makes it a little easier to do with a partner. I haven't had a partner since I learned that so I can't confirm. But that is what a fellow survivor told me. Hope it helps.

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