There's really nothing you can do besides taking your medicine and going to counseling. I've been depressed for 3 years and I've tried coming out of it but your mind will come out of it when its ready. Your medicine should help alleviate a lot of it but it won't cure it. Your husband should be understanding. He needs to go to counseling with you so he can get an idea from the counselor what to expect and how to behave. If he's not willing then he's not a true life partner. I'm on my third husband. My first two husband's were not understanding of me and were never satisfied with how I did things. Nothing was good enough. My husband now understands my conditions and loves me through them. I can't bring myself to clean the house right now. He cleans it. He cooks. He works. He's awesome. When I come out of this depression I'm paying him back for what he's done for me