Ignore them if they havent gone through it they will never understand so no matter how many times you try to explain it will be like explaining to a wall

I try to explain the depth of the distress (without going into detail because it can be exhausting and a little too vulnerable at times). I say something like "I know it's probably silly and nonconsequential to you because you don't have this experience; but for me my world shakes when I go through this and my body goes into terror mode. I can't help it." If they still don't respect that, then try to keep your distance as much as you can. Unfortunately I haven't seen one of my best friends for months because she couldn't respect my boundaries and thought they were silly or like I was being "too much." And it helps too to remember that being triggered means we survived something. We fought hard and made it to the other side, and we're still fighting and moving forward. People who minimize that are either people who have been privileged enough not to have to suffer, or people who have their own mess that they're not dealing with or being responsible for. In either case, you have the right to reassure yourself that you have immense power for being able to move through this and nobody can take that away from you.

Know that you are not alone, once I was too scared to go into a room, and two people I considered friends were being very judgy about it, so I decided to explain, and they said "I have trauma too and I'm not a wimp like that" and "that happened 12 years ago, get over it." No matter how hard we try there will be people incapable of empathy. I try to help people understand, and if they still can't, I don't really like that kind of person. It still hurts to this day but I try to remind myself that *I* know that *I* had a good reason to be scared of going in that room, that my fear was valid, and that I am trying *my* best every day to overcome the things that have happened to me. Nobody else can define how strong I am being about a certain situation. I'm sort of just repeating what DX said, but big hugs out to you, there are so many other ways you have overcome your abuser that are so huge and nobody will ever truly understand that. Not liking a singer doesn't invalidate the Mount Everests you've already climbed.

Triggers can be anything!! Everyone's triggers who have had traumatic things happen can be anything that relates to the situation! My papa who molested me drank Milwaukees best ice aka:the beast....I can't stand the smell the look nothing!! Trigger trigger trigger for me.

That's just mean. People are afraid of any mental health condition so most don't even try to understand it

I've had people do more of what triggers me just to laugh while I implode. Get rid of them! I am here. I understand.

Ignore them instead of freaking out I yell in my head but I ignore them I think people like that have a superiority complex abuse that so they stop

Honestly people are stupid. If you explain that something is painfully upsetting because it reminds you of traumatic experiences, and they blow it off or laugh ...then they don't deserve to be around you.

I understand how you feel. I won't go to a certain town because my ex lives there and the thought of running into him sends me into a panic attack. Is it silly to me heck no. To others maybe. Do I care. No. They haven't lived through the trauma I lived through with him. Emotional scars don't heal fast. It's been almost 9 years for me and I still get scared over it.

I would never laugh at your pain. Your experience is valid and the discomfort generated from it is real. You are a human being with emotions and needs and concerns. I would pounce on the radio to change the station to give you peace. If there was anything you wanted to face that caused you trauma response I would always tell you I would be there. I would never force anything on you to face. People I know have tried to force what they want in their timeline because they don't get it. I will never return to them. Never. No matter who.

Triggers suck. And they can be anything. One of my triggers is the smell of peanut butter that I've had for 26 years. It's definitely been awkward in some situations throughout childhood/adolescence and into adulthood when I start having a panic attacks. You deserve patience and understanding. They are not silly and you don't deserve to be laughed at, that's cruel. Just focus on what's happening in your body and try not to worry about them. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Unless you feel comfortable sharing and want to. You are strong and a survivor. Screw them.

What other people think about you is none of your business