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so i found out last night husband of 6 year has been cheating on me with 3 different girls and a man š¤¦š½āāļø I'm hurt and really angry all at the same time,bc the last time I caught him cheating it broke my heart and I was really depressed for a while and he promised he wouldn't do it again m,but yes he has and with 3 different women and a man ontop of thatš©šŖ How do o cope with all of this? I feel as if I should get even and my husband and I just be separate and but raise our kids together. I mean he gave me a yeast infection(it's cleared up now though) and it could have been something much worse that I couldn't get rid of.
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I would be stepping away from him. That's is complete bullcrap to put you through that!! And yes it could have been worse than a yeast infection!! Keep you and your kids safe girl.
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You deserve so much better girl. Ik it's hard to walk away but you're strong woman that has been through alot from what ive read....you can do this ā¤ļø
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@ShoobyDoobyDoo91 thank you
Man fuck your husband and fuck the stress focus on yourself and your kids. You deserve better!
@dadoen š I'm so sad right now yall I feel like an idiot smh...feel stupid 4 ever thinking he wouldn't cheat again after the 1st time. I'm a good wifeš„I'm I'm really good wifeš„ I take care of my kids, I worked my ass of before we moved and I had my baby girl because he wouldn't/couldn't find a job in the small town we were living in so I supported the household all by myself š„like I fucking went through loosing our the house we were renting and going thru being homeless while being pregnant from December(I couldn't buy my kids Christmas or birthday gifts for my 2year old twins) I've been there for him š„ but I get his ass 2 kiss smh smh smh š Like what's wrong with me what did I do to deserve this? Why don't he just love meš„? Omg
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@Tiyanna girl you didnt do anything wrong he doesnt deserve you!!! Hes doing everything wrong by not realizing how amazing and strong his wife is.
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Thank you I'm just feel depressed right now
Thatās just completely horrible Iām so sorry youāre going through that. My ex husband cheated on me too and it was so difficult to move on from. I will say that his behavior is very unlikely to change and you definitely should move on from that relationship. Find support groups in your area and hopefully there is a good therapist that you can work with to move forward. Definitely donāt do things alone it makes it so much harder. What he did was not a reflection of anything wrong with you. That is all on him. Never feel guilt that you ended this marriage because he was the one who broke your vows and ended it. Your kids are going to be just fine and likely better off with you two apart. We have a lot of divorces in our family and everyone of the kids in those situations agrees it wouldāve been worse if their parents stayed together. Stay strong. You can do this. Youāre above this behavior and you will one day find someone who will respect you how you deserve.
@Cece7 thank you...I told my husband I rather us just be separated so he can have sex with whoever he wants to. Tbh I hate to completely just divorce him taking him away from our 3 kids,bc I have an 8 year old who's dad isn't in her life at all and she's suffering from it as well as from my husband refusing to step up as and be that father figure for her š¤¦š½āāļø. I'm just very hurt š„and I don't want to repeat the process
@Tiyanna I said a similar thing to mine too. He asked for us to get back together after the divorce and Iām like no go enjoy your freedom. You didnāt want me when we were married you donāt get to have me now. youāve been through so much and donāt deserve all this. Thankfully your kids have you in their life even if they donāt have a perfect father figure they still have you to be their safe space. Theyāll be watching you a lot in this process (Iāve learned personally) so making sure to just be the better person for them is something theyāll learn from and look up to. My daughter had the same issue with her bio dad she really hates him but thankfully I was able to remarry and she does have a father figure she loves now. I know this is probably far from your thoughts but you never know, one day you might meet a man who will step up and be the dad your kids deserve.
@ShoobyDoobyDoo91 thank you for you're advice
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