Dealing with Infidelity and Depression

this is not your fault. I just want to start by saying that. I havent been on this app in a few months, but when I saw this notification pop up I couldn't ignore it. your husband and sister are fully responsible for what happened, and it is not your fault in any way possible. please don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I often don't feel good enough in my relationships either, so I understand that type of mindset. what they did was totally wrong and clearly hurtful to you, as it would be to almost anyone. you are allowed to feel this sadness because you were betrayed by two people who should have your best interests at heart. you are so worthy of love, and I don't need to know you personally to know that. do you have any close friends you can reach out to for support? I can't imagine it would be easy to lean on your husband in a time like this, and I can understand why. needless to say, you are worth it, you are enough, and you deserve to be loved. no matter what the negative thoughts in your head say. I struggle to believe this myself, but I try to tell it to myself as much as I can because maybe one day I can outweigh the doubt with telling myself I'm worth it. even if its just a little bit. I can't imagine how hard this is, but please try not to put this on yourself, because it is NOT your fault