Struggling with Anger and Reality

I feel similarly sometimes. I let petty things override my emotions and thoughts and potentially ruin a relationship that really isn’t bad or the opposite where I will suffer through friendships/relationships that I’d probably be better off not be apart of in the first place. I guess my advice is don’t settle for your needs and wants, put your time and energy into things you love and want to pursue, but always try to remember that everyone is struggling in some way. As much as we want to lash out and drop people when they do something that we feel has wronged us, there are times we put people through similar situations and they still stick around. It’s a hard balance but good luck to you 🙏