Frustrated with Narcissist Boyfriend and His Sick Son Before My Tubal Ligation

So I am going in to have my tubes tied, a procedure I've been waiting all of my life to have. My narcissist boyfriend and his son have been sick and I have to share space with them and they won't even try to contain their germs. I'm beyond frustrated, and to top it off I had to stop taking several medications starting today and already feel like crap. Am I wrong to be upset? And to preface the kid's not mine and I could have stayed elsewhere but the boyfriend threw a fit. *he also won't let me break things off and completely ruined my plan to have my friend take me to surgery and let it be not a stressful process. he's already stressing me out. thanks for reading, I just needed to get that out.