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healthphie

400d

i’ve never been in a real relationship and I have been on dating apps for years, only able to achieve hookups. I want a relationship but am not trying to force one but the majority of guys I match with unmatch me for no reason after either acting like they want a hookup or a relationship. i’ve been stood up and ghosted more times than I can count too. I dont get it or what’s wrong with me

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    • danipsych

      400d

      There's nothing wrong with you! Dating apps and the people on them aren't typically designed to create lasting relationships (esp t*nder). I've met a lot of people who said explicitly they wanted a relationship or more and flat out ghosted me. Personally I am not interested in a relationship at the moment but from past experience I can tell you they often come when you are not expecting them <3 it also adds a layer of stress when you have anxiety or social struggles. Just be patient with yourself and know that the right person will love you for you and not want you to change

    • roseblue1

      398d

      There is nothing wrong with you but most dating apps are guys looking for sex

    • HJade94

      400d

      All I will say is when meeting a partner, ring your local police station and cite Claires law. I met my previous partner on a dating site, he was lovely to begin with, turned out he was a narcissistic abuser and I ended up in a dv relationship for 2 years. If I knew claires law was around then, I could've saved myself so much xx

    • Titch2002

      400d

      So I believe there is someone for everyone. I didn't do dating apps, I meet them through mutual friends. Don't give up on love and happiness.

    • TheMoonGoddess420

      400d

      but it is out there*

    • TheMoonGoddess420

      400d

      There is nothing wrong with you love. Dating can be hard. Especially with dating apps. I actually met my boyfriend when I least expected it. We started off as friends first. Then our relationship blossomed. We've been together almost 4 months and I'm the happiest I ever been. He loves me and accepts me for me even with my ailments. That is very rare sometimes but it is our there. There is someone for everyone don't give up love. But I would stay off of tinder or any app like it because most of those guys are only looking for one thing.

    • danipsych

      400d

      There's nothing wrong with you! Dating apps and the people on them aren't typically designed to create lasting relationships (esp t*nder). I've met a lot of people who said explicitly they wanted a relationship or more and flat out ghosted me. Personally I am not interested in a relationship at the moment but from past experience I can tell you they often come when you are not expecting them <3 it also adds a layer of stress when you have anxiety or social struggles. Just be patient with yourself and know that the right person will love you for you and not want you to change

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